Random Thoughts

WOW! A month long hiatus, where have the AfroDivas been? Really and truly guys, I have no explanation... I've just been busy... so back to our scheduled posts... lets get stuck in!!



Going on holiday. Lol. Yes I know, when am I ever not going anywhere. Going to the Big Apple, I don't know, I've always felt like there's something there for me. Grass isn't greener on the other side but I'm just hoping that in this case it is. No, I'm not a sell out, I'm just trying to find a better future for myself. This might just be my chance, if it doesn't work out, then that's fine. I just don't want to look back and think about what could've been.

I'm gone for three weeks this time, not sure how everyone will be when I come back. 'Work girl' from Random Thoughts 2 might think I've gone completely off the rails this time. LOL. IDIOT!!



I cut my hair off, for no reason at all this time. Just wanted a change! Now I wish I hadn't gone so drastic. Have you ever realised that when you want to do something or when you really want something you don't see anyone with it, but as soon as you do that 'said thing' it sems like the whole world has done it too.

I cut my hair, left the salon, went to meet my friend and practically every girl I saw had short hair. SHITE!! How can I look different? Went back again the next week and shaved off the left side .... COMPLETELY!! I hate looking like everyone else, I hate looking like the token black girl, but that has changed now because I actually do look different. It'll grow out, it's all a matter of time. I like it, my mum preferred the 'cut' I first had and my dad. Lol!! Let's just say he wasn't too pleased - but he knows the type of daughter he has. I'm not crazy like Britney!!



OK. I just have to add this quickly because if I don't, I'll forget. Basically, as my name is Gabrielle to you readers, I'm known to others as Alesha!! Don't ask, I didn't go round introducing myself as Alesha, it's all because of 'the Wood', my good friend started it all and since then it's just stuck. So, anyway the debate is whether it was 'badmind', 'dodgy' for Mike to have slept with Alesha. Background story is that Mike liked Alesha, and Alesha liked Mike (secretly), they both lost their virginity to each other whilst they both had partners. Question is, do you think that's dodgy?

Well, yes I think it is dodgy because it's not good to cheat, but then again, Alesha and Mike were made for each other. It's crazy the way life works. They ended it with their partners as soon as they had slept with each other because obviously they knew they were both wasting their time with the other person. It's not easy to have a strong opinion on this topic because if I was Alesha, I would want to find happiness, but then again if I was Alesha's partner before Mike, I obviously wouldn't be pleased that I was pushed to the side because of another guy. It all depends on who you are in the scenario, if you are a 'Mike' or an 'Alesha', your life is blessed, if you're not.... you're pissed. I guess it's just a sign for you to move on. But what do you guys think, because I know some people that don't think there's a problem with sleeping with people that they know have a partner. To me, it's nasty, plays you off as desperate. To others, its just the norm. The world we live in ey!! The world we live in.

Thanks for reading guys, this is just a quick post, haven't returned to my usual 'post every day' self, but it's getting there.


- Gabrielle xx