My friend is having a little dilema and needed some advice, so i suggested asking the wise readers of this blog to help out.
Let me give you the background information.....right, my friend...lets call her "Katie", shes dating this guy called..."Tom" he's funny, considerate and that all that good stuff!
The problem is he moves "a lil' too fast", shes told him that she wants to take things slow and build a friendship before taking it any further.....he took this as a rejection and said "your just using what your ex-boyfriend did to you and taking it out on me......i would never treat you that way". Katie claims this is NOT the case, but still feels that she needs to protect herself in any relationship, this i understand.
According to her if it was up to him he would be moving in with her next month .... he is already talking about introducing her to his family, they have only been together for a few weeks! I have reminded her that she should be careful about what she wishes for....she always claimed she wanted a guy that was "worthy" of her and treated her the way she "deserved" to be treated.....then BANG here he is, and she wants to take things slowly.
They were shopping together and she introduced him to someone as her "friend" afterwards they got into an argument with him saying, and i quote...."im not your friend...i'm your man" she claimed she was in shock after this statement because she didnt realise they had established themselves as a "couple".
Katie's strictly "old skool" and she wanted your opinions...when do you know your in a relationship??
Katie: "does'nt someone have to ask??.....Katie, do you wanna go out with me?....Yes...No...Maybe?
Help my girl out and leave some comments.....peace
- SistaLova
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i wonder who this post is about? umm...sistalova, a few hidden messages. anything you want 2 share??
these days boys never want to be known as 'your man' because they don't want the responsibility of being a couple...'katie', i think that you should be happy that 'tom' is willing to be 'your man' and take this as a good thing. i'm not saying 'go and meet his parents' obviously still gotta take it slow but ure lucky that you found someone that wants to be in a relationship with you.
Boi, readin dis was kinda crazy coz im in xactly da same kinda situ. But da way I see it, from time wen u see each other practicly every day, weneva u dnt see each other yall r on da phone or txtin. From wen dey consume ur nrg n ur thoughts y shud u av to label urselfs 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' to know how u both feel bout each other? A relationship is not something that should be taken for granted, yall need to essentially establish ur frenship if u want it too last. But in sayin dat, if ur guy feels yall need 2 label it for him 2 feel secure n ur looking 4 sum kinda verifycation dat yall r 'together' n u wana 'b' wiv him den let him kno gurl! go head n break dem rules!!
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