Thursday, February 02, 2006

My Ideal Man

My ideal man! The amount of times that I have thought about what my husband should look like or what I would like my husband to look like. And how easy it is to say ‘Morris Chestnut, Tyson Beckford, Boris Kodjoe, Shemar Moore.’ So easy because they are FINE!!! But realistically, what are the chances ey? I’m really going to make my way to work and bump into Taye Diggs. Oh how I wish! But I was thinking about my ideal guy and this is what I singled it down to.

A tall guy, preferably 6 foot tall but not essential, the guy just has to be taller than me (even when I wear heels). Baring in mind, I’m between 5’6 and 5’7. Next feature, chocolate complexion….that’s something that makes me weak….a nice sharp shape up. Oooh chale!!! That’s it right there. Lol!! You and I both know that there’s more……a nice smile and he has to be a Christian. Those are the fundamentals of my ideal man; you think that’s a lot to ask. Well, sometimes, I actually do. Guys that approach me fall far and in between but they are never quite there. And who do I think I am? I’m Gabrielle, and frankly I don’t care whether I sound conceited, I know I’m not, just trying to get my point across. There have been times where I’ve settled for second best, sometimes not even as good as second best, just cant help making the wrong choices. And now, I’m trying to raise the bar a little higher, maybe that way I can meet my match. Tall, dark and handsome.........I’m waiting.

- Gabrielle

12 comments:

the AfroDivas said...

I'm waiting too!...lol, im lovin this post and you sont sound conceited at all...your just a woman who knows EXACTLY what she wants. No one can fault you for that!

- SistaLova

Anonymous said...

Gabrielle ur kinda real still - but jus a bit in a dream world coz u knw da great guy is short wit a big smile who can make u can turn ure frown upside down

Anonymous said...

very very shallow.ALL UR IDEL GUY IS ABOUT LOOKS?tyson beckford how do u even know what hes like,ur obsesed with him because of his looks, as a girl i really despise when girls go crazy bout all these so called 'celebrities' you dont even know what there character is like, gabrielle am disappoointed, and i really thought you had your head screwed on.out of all the characteristics you mentioned all of them were physical things which can change in an instant!

the AfroDivas said...

ok to the last comment... thank you for your opinion. I love hearing what people have to say about my posts. ok. If you read the post properly...you would have noticed that I wrote 'he has to be a Christian'. Now interpret that however you want to...but i didn't feel like I had to elaborate. reason because 'my ideal man' is someone that God has ordained for me, God knows what I like in a guy and He knows what kind of guy I would be suited to. I just basically rounded up all the points I could easily touch on because of time...but in my own opinion I'm not going to 'front' like some other girls do and say looks aren't important. I mean there has to be some sort of attraction between me and the guy for me to even like him. My type of guy could be different to yours and yours to mine. Just something to think about when you like a guy...you notice him for what first? Obviously, it can't be for his personality because you haven't had the chance to get to know him, you notice him because of his appearance. But that's just something I feel you should think about before you post an ignorant message like that. 'As a girl i really despise' when other girls like yourself act 'holier than thou'. It's that same attitude that drives people away from church. Just think about that.

- Gabrielle

the AfroDivas said...

Haha....i guess u told her!, can i just say im stil feelin wat my girl Gabrielle said...
To da Anonymous one...If your honest wid urself u kno dat u ave a perfect IMAGE of wat ur ideal man looks like and dats all dis post was about. Dont get ur panties in a bunch!...lol
Thanx for da comment..peace

- SistaLova

Anonymous said...

U idiot i dont even go church?and yes u do see looks first but looks should not matter.You should be open minded about everyone that approaches you and having a ''certain type'' or criteria aint that at all.I mean how long you being looking for your ''ideal man'' i bet more than 4/5 years dont know ow old you are and have you found him?get real!!and i bet youve being out with a WHOLE lot of guys that you thought suited that ''BLACK ATTRACTIVE SWARVE'' thing u have in your mind...and where are they now.EXACTLY!!!you girls think am the ignorant one,please get a life and realise what this dating relationship thing is all about.This is one of the reason people have problems in marriage,becasue of HIGH EXPECTATIONs which is unnesscesary.People get things too complicated and have these FANTASIES and when they actually get into it and see what relationships entails they cant handle it..and what do they do....give up.AND PLEASE DONT GIVE ME THAT LINE ABOUT...MY PERFECT MAN IS COMIN!!!its tru u fall in love but GET UP and walk dating and men aint no fantasy..its reality love..so before u start this site and talk loosely, know what your on about..OK...apart from that i do love the site doh..lolll..keep it up girlsx

the AfroDivas said...

that's what we like 2 see... real opinions. thanx 2 'anonymous' 4 her opinion and if anyone else wants 2 add anything...go right ahead. this is your opportunity 2 have your voice heard. KEEP READING!! BLESS XX

- Gabrielle

Anonymous said...

gab i fink ure so cool, i fink i love u, nah i love ure writin still, do u look like gabrielle da singer wit one eye? i fink dats u knw, i bet ure gabrielle da singer......

the AfroDivas said...

ok...no im not gabrielle the singer. is that a compliment?? n do you really think gabrielle has time 2 write something lyk dis?? umm.. maybe she does. thanx tho... i do try my best wit d writin.

- Gabrielle

Anonymous said...

wow..that got kinda heated....i love this site...lol

Anonymous said...

u neva knw u culd be gabrielle coz i swear her career has gone down da pan still so she must have time, gabrieele neways i fink ure FAB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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